I made an apt at 11:30 (nothing serious) for tomor; hope I'll be able to get out of the cul-de-sac.
I got into a crappy mood last night when I realized the loads of strangers I had invited to connect to weren't all accepting my invites, which is legit, because I don't actually know them nor will probably meet them. I get a msg now when I try to connect to new people that I've almost reached my limit and would need to have people's email addresses in the future in order to connect! Hopefully there is a time factor and that could go away. So this realization reinforced the thought that my job searching is haphazardous .. I was trying to connect to a bunch of people with the mindset that "it's who you know." Then I reread my blog from 3 days ago and remember Dad thought I was doing well job search-wise (but the connections aren't working out as well as he thought). I told him how this week I was tired at work; this isn't uncommon but seemed more so this week. Possible the guy situation influenced that because I was so happy to meet him initially and thought some things would "start rolling" in my life and then standstill and not knowing if anything will result.
Being snowed in with my family who irritates me didn't help. I've got to learn to keep positive and not let their "lack of" bother me. My sister was talking on the phone with her friend at midnight and laughing loudly in the family room, which is under my parents' bedroom (one parent was still awake). She annoys me with her lack of consideration for family members. Since I started it, might as well go into other things that bothered me yday. My dad told me that he's handling my sis' laziness, to not write her notes. I don't like writing notes but she pisses me off when she doesn't clean our common space. I wanted to say to him that yes, he is the patriach, but if he could see it from my point of view, that she's being inconsiderate and disrespectful to her sister 7 years her elder. But then, I take things too seriously lately and seem to have a chip on my shoulder but in fact, they aren't worth stressing over.
Which leads to the last thing that came into factor yday, and it's going to really sound like the violin now, but I want my checking account to be higher! It was at a nice level a few months ago but that was before I paid for the laptop and tried to consolidate my car loans to pay them off faster. It's hard to feel optimistic about hopefully moving out soon when my account isn't where I'd like it to be. I did increase my college loan payment, which is good, and finally started a savings again.. this will be my France fund because I know I won't be able to go there this year. Where do the Swiss get their money? I talked to Viviane yday online, who I hadn't heard from in ages, and she wrote she and her friends are planning another trip to NYC in August!
1/31/10
1/28/10
Chinese Wal-mart, munchies, etc
Last night my goofy (only male since other was off) coworker said he was looking at French Wal-mart online for work. This prompted me to check out Wal-mart China which had a fun page since it's soon the year of the Tiger. I enjoyed looking at the "circulars," of many products I saw in supermarkets, like the lovely Lipton Bubble tea. I sent to a few female coworkers, actually ones with bfs, a screen shot of the ad for red men's underwear writing "Because you know he'd look cute in red boxers or briefs." Chinese New year starts Valentine's Day.. year of the tiger.
I want a dog so badly. I would take any medium-sized to small dog (big ones are smelly) but Schnauzers are ideal because they're what I know, are really cute, and don't shed. The dog we had til age 5 was a Schnauzer/poodle mix though didn't really look like it. He was "blond and brown;" really cute.
My dad said I'm making good progress on my job search, which is nice to hear, even if I'm not progressing as much as I'd like. I had a lunch date a week ago with a potential recruiter and haven't had another event in that time.. goes by quickly when working full-time.
I'm rather silly. You'd think I'd know by now, going on 25. I said to coworkers (handful of women and a bi guy) I suddenly wanted kung pao chicken, and that I've been craving things, like last night diet root beer and a jelly donut. Then I realized, well, duh, I started my period. When I said to my closest coworker sometimes craving things shows a lack in your diet, she joked "Lacking jelly?"
As to this coworker, who introduced me to cute guy, well, I had given her benefit of the doubt that she indeed passed on my # (and therefore, I wondered, even if he's busy studying/working, why hasn't he called?!) I told some people I hadn't heard, and they thought I could contact him. I explained I didn't have his #. And the reason she didn't offer it is that she herself didn't have it.. only her bf does. What rather annoys me is that her bf said to her (who said to me) how his friend seemed to really like me.. and yet he didn't pass on the goddamn # so we could make contact! Urgh. They went to Vegas for a long weekend but still, they're always texting/Twittering. A bit inconsiderate. A friend/coworker thinks still, some time has passed since we met (over 2 weeks), and the longer the time, the less the spark or at least remembering. But I feel this guy is somewhat introverted and doesn't meet a lot of chicks. That's just my hopeful thought. I do, however, agree that to be "pleasantly surprised" is better than being disappointed.
I want a dog so badly. I would take any medium-sized to small dog (big ones are smelly) but Schnauzers are ideal because they're what I know, are really cute, and don't shed. The dog we had til age 5 was a Schnauzer/poodle mix though didn't really look like it. He was "blond and brown;" really cute.
My dad said I'm making good progress on my job search, which is nice to hear, even if I'm not progressing as much as I'd like. I had a lunch date a week ago with a potential recruiter and haven't had another event in that time.. goes by quickly when working full-time.
I'm rather silly. You'd think I'd know by now, going on 25. I said to coworkers (handful of women and a bi guy) I suddenly wanted kung pao chicken, and that I've been craving things, like last night diet root beer and a jelly donut. Then I realized, well, duh, I started my period. When I said to my closest coworker sometimes craving things shows a lack in your diet, she joked "Lacking jelly?"
As to this coworker, who introduced me to cute guy, well, I had given her benefit of the doubt that she indeed passed on my # (and therefore, I wondered, even if he's busy studying/working, why hasn't he called?!) I told some people I hadn't heard, and they thought I could contact him. I explained I didn't have his #. And the reason she didn't offer it is that she herself didn't have it.. only her bf does. What rather annoys me is that her bf said to her (who said to me) how his friend seemed to really like me.. and yet he didn't pass on the goddamn # so we could make contact! Urgh. They went to Vegas for a long weekend but still, they're always texting/Twittering. A bit inconsiderate. A friend/coworker thinks still, some time has passed since we met (over 2 weeks), and the longer the time, the less the spark or at least remembering. But I feel this guy is somewhat introverted and doesn't meet a lot of chicks. That's just my hopeful thought. I do, however, agree that to be "pleasantly surprised" is better than being disappointed.
1/27/10
Spelling bee almost-champion
I was runner-up (2nd place) in the spelling bee at the bar last night! I didn't know how to spell this word: glockenspiel. I thought maybe it started "gloughen..." If I had won, the prize is a case of cheap beer, which I don't like nor would have use for since I live with my parents.
Funny thing at the bar last night: even though I don't "go out" a lot, I saw a few people I recognized there. It depends what kind of bar and people, but in general, I feel I would see familiar people if I went out more. It shows Richmond is somewhat small, but I think I like it.
Going out with coworkers has its benefits. I learned some info that seems hopeful that I could be moved to an earlier shift; however, this may not in fact be management's agenda or it could take a long time, so I should bust my ass all the more to get a better job. I said to my friend/coworker before going home last night that I definitely want a better shift/job by the summer. By the spring, of course, but ultimately the summer. Somewhat like I don't still want to be living with my parents at age 25 (soon approaching!), I'm telling myself I simply won't tolerate another summer like last because it was crap. Never again. Summer is supposed to be a time of fun, carefreeness (yeah, made it up) in the evenings, hanging with friends but I was stuck attached to a headset in a cold office building, lonely. (Should I get out my violin? lol)
Funny thing at the bar last night: even though I don't "go out" a lot, I saw a few people I recognized there. It depends what kind of bar and people, but in general, I feel I would see familiar people if I went out more. It shows Richmond is somewhat small, but I think I like it.
Going out with coworkers has its benefits. I learned some info that seems hopeful that I could be moved to an earlier shift; however, this may not in fact be management's agenda or it could take a long time, so I should bust my ass all the more to get a better job. I said to my friend/coworker before going home last night that I definitely want a better shift/job by the summer. By the spring, of course, but ultimately the summer. Somewhat like I don't still want to be living with my parents at age 25 (soon approaching!), I'm telling myself I simply won't tolerate another summer like last because it was crap. Never again. Summer is supposed to be a time of fun, carefreeness (yeah, made it up) in the evenings, hanging with friends but I was stuck attached to a headset in a cold office building, lonely. (Should I get out my violin? lol)
1/24/10
oh, melatonin
I hate wasting/throwing away things that I know aren't good but at the same time aren't terribly bad; melatonin pills, for example. I took these every night for over a month 3 months ago, before I read one shouldn't take them regularly.
I took one last one despite getting headaches the last few times I've taken them.. no headache this time and I went to sleep considerably earlier than normal. Then I slept 10 hours, which I guess is fine since I'm recuperating from my 24 hr bug when I felt so incredibly lethargic, but still feel a little tired; getting a good amount of rest is fine as long as when feels refreshed afterward!
~~ (little later) Here we go again: at home with my sis (and my parents) on the weekend, and I am SO angry. It's been a month since she swept the bathroom floor. I remind her, which I shouldn't have to do, and she replies that she knows she needs to do it, yet does this make the process faster? Not AT ALL. I am SO tired of living with such a lazy ass. I don't know where her lack of responsibility comes from.. I can only put up with it a little longer. If a college friend needs to move out of her place by March, I would consider getting a place with her because.. words can't describe.. I simply need to get out of here. On my own (well, with housemates) where I can hopefully have a clearer mind and be more focused on my agenda, away from petty distractions that my family bring.
I took one last one despite getting headaches the last few times I've taken them.. no headache this time and I went to sleep considerably earlier than normal. Then I slept 10 hours, which I guess is fine since I'm recuperating from my 24 hr bug when I felt so incredibly lethargic, but still feel a little tired; getting a good amount of rest is fine as long as when feels refreshed afterward!
~~ (little later) Here we go again: at home with my sis (and my parents) on the weekend, and I am SO angry. It's been a month since she swept the bathroom floor. I remind her, which I shouldn't have to do, and she replies that she knows she needs to do it, yet does this make the process faster? Not AT ALL. I am SO tired of living with such a lazy ass. I don't know where her lack of responsibility comes from.. I can only put up with it a little longer. If a college friend needs to move out of her place by March, I would consider getting a place with her because.. words can't describe.. I simply need to get out of here. On my own (well, with housemates) where I can hopefully have a clearer mind and be more focused on my agenda, away from petty distractions that my family bring.
1/22/10
You can't say I don't make life interesting for myself..
Yesterday, due to confusion between LinkedIn, which has photos of people if they so choose, personal email, and masculine names for women, I was surprised that the Scottie I met for lunch turned out to be a woman! She's a Randy-Mac alumna, 15 years older, so it turned out well. We may meet again, and she may try to help me in my job search.
I don't remember the last time I felt so weak. I woke up feeling like I could throw up. I had wanted to go to the ball yoga class but decided to go back to sleep. Set my alarm because the community org person was going to stop by because I said I could donate craft supplies to the Children's museum. Had a nice long conversation with a Randy Mac friend, and though my stomach felt better, was still terribly weak, so slept for 3 hours. Didn't want to sleep too long and totally throw off my schedule.
I started using Facebook again a little. I like to update my status with random things sometimes. Chat is nice for a wider "audience," those who don't have Gmail.
I don't remember the last time I felt so weak. I woke up feeling like I could throw up. I had wanted to go to the ball yoga class but decided to go back to sleep. Set my alarm because the community org person was going to stop by because I said I could donate craft supplies to the Children's museum. Had a nice long conversation with a Randy Mac friend, and though my stomach felt better, was still terribly weak, so slept for 3 hours. Didn't want to sleep too long and totally throw off my schedule.
I started using Facebook again a little. I like to update my status with random things sometimes. Chat is nice for a wider "audience," those who don't have Gmail.
1/21/10
Male ballet
Talk about gender-bending!
I saw this tonight http://www.trockadero.org , and luckily, our seats in the far right balcony were still good (better than back of the orchestra) because it's a small theater.
Let me tell you, it is too weird to see a package under a yellow tutu.
I saw this tonight http://www.trockadero.org , and luckily, our seats in the far right balcony were still good (better than back of the orchestra) because it's a small theater.
Let me tell you, it is too weird to see a package under a yellow tutu.
1/20/10
Frederick, MD
Another trip to DC, and what have I learned?
1. Def need a GPS
2. I like the store Filene's Basement
3. I'm not sure I want to live in DC area.. maybe I'm fine with Richmond for now while figuring out what kind of career I want!
I bought some brown corduroy pants at store mentioned above. I feel generally thin compared to college days on the terrible med but those pants showed me oh-so-well that I could afford to try jogging once a week and sit-ups, esp now that spring is approaching.
I went for a bike ride last saturday, and it was so pleasant. I felt optimistic about this spring.
1. Def need a GPS
2. I like the store Filene's Basement
3. I'm not sure I want to live in DC area.. maybe I'm fine with Richmond for now while figuring out what kind of career I want!
I bought some brown corduroy pants at store mentioned above. I feel generally thin compared to college days on the terrible med but those pants showed me oh-so-well that I could afford to try jogging once a week and sit-ups, esp now that spring is approaching.
I went for a bike ride last saturday, and it was so pleasant. I felt optimistic about this spring.
1/19/10
Curious finding (stalking?) hehe
So I might have a date soon, which I'm really happy about. I'm a curious person and looked at the guy's Fbook page again and.... well, we have the same birthday! Is that not weird? Exactly 4 yrs apart. I suddenly thought, "That makes sense" in that he seemed somewhat introverted like me, that we have similar personalities. But then I thought, 'Maybe this isn't good." I know in Western astrology, they say certain signs are compatible. I don't believe in Chinese/Vietnamese zodiac, that people of the same birth year aren't compatible. Hm.. I think Donna would say I'm overthinking this. I'm amused, at any rate.
1/17/10
Friend's 25th
Tonight I went to a house party-- been a while! It was pretty fun but I felt a little more "forced" than my Monday night off this week when I met the hottie. There was Mexican food and two little dogs, a black poodle and a miniature Terrier, both in sweaters, running around. I didn't know a lot of people there (it was a joint bday party with guy I didn't know). I was amused when the cute guy from the YMCA showed up. He's married (and Republican). I talked to a Macedonian guy near the end who was funny. Speaking of the Catholic church, he said about the boys, "That's why they're there, to be touched!" I know, not PC AT all.
The tiramisu gelato I brought was popular. I forgot my friend is lactose-intolerant, but she had a bite. The cake was not cut (I cut it) until much later.
I was invited to go dancing (not at a club but a bar) and thought about it, but forget to google map directions from the person's house to downtown. I decided to stick to one place for the night, that it wouldn't be enough time. But I danced there. It started when this goofy-looking, long-faced guy said he would "pop lock and drop it." Next came Soulja boy's "Superman," which I enjoy. I heard/saw it in China almost 2 years ago. I felt a little sad that I haven't been to more fun house parties in that time. Then came the electric slide but not enough room. I decided to dance when they played the "Macarena." We even did a congo around the house with macarenas! I learned the song "Skanky leg." I was going to take video of it but a woman was dancing it in front of me. I have to say, the two of them dancing of it looked pretty hot, lol.
As for what I drank, I had tequila/grenadine punch (a bit sweet), a shot of patron (the lime was stuck in my teeth for a while), and some sparkling wine at the end. I thought I could come home and "study" (career books) like I said I would do Monday night, following cute LSAT guy's lead, but both then and now, feel too tired/unmotivated. I better tomorrow before work!
I went for a long bike ride today. Only two more days then I go to DC! Haven't lined up other biz contacts but may meet a HS friend. THere is a job fair the following week on my day off.
The tiramisu gelato I brought was popular. I forgot my friend is lactose-intolerant, but she had a bite. The cake was not cut (I cut it) until much later.
I was invited to go dancing (not at a club but a bar) and thought about it, but forget to google map directions from the person's house to downtown. I decided to stick to one place for the night, that it wouldn't be enough time. But I danced there. It started when this goofy-looking, long-faced guy said he would "pop lock and drop it." Next came Soulja boy's "Superman," which I enjoy. I heard/saw it in China almost 2 years ago. I felt a little sad that I haven't been to more fun house parties in that time. Then came the electric slide but not enough room. I decided to dance when they played the "Macarena." We even did a congo around the house with macarenas! I learned the song "Skanky leg." I was going to take video of it but a woman was dancing it in front of me. I have to say, the two of them dancing of it looked pretty hot, lol.
As for what I drank, I had tequila/grenadine punch (a bit sweet), a shot of patron (the lime was stuck in my teeth for a while), and some sparkling wine at the end. I thought I could come home and "study" (career books) like I said I would do Monday night, following cute LSAT guy's lead, but both then and now, feel too tired/unmotivated. I better tomorrow before work!
I went for a long bike ride today. Only two more days then I go to DC! Haven't lined up other biz contacts but may meet a HS friend. THere is a job fair the following week on my day off.
1/12/10
Crushing
Well, I'm flattered my coworker was going to set me up with someone as cute as her boyfriend's friend. He is cute. I'm a sucker for warm brown eyes that draw you in. Guess he's 27 or so. I think she thought to set us up because we've both taught abroad and are good at languages. Don't know if coworker had mentioned me to him, but he asked if I spoke 7 languages.
My god, he's cute. (Not in a cocky way). Actually, I'm not sure our personalities are the best match; he may be too introverted for me. But anyway, I really liked him. He's studying for the LSAT, which he takes in a month. We had good conversations, and I stood close to him while waiting to order another glass of vino verde at the bar. I felt like he wasn't as into me as I wanted him to be, but he did hug me when he said goodbye. This night makes me more hopeful: the realization I can connect with guys given the opportunity. I will have a nice boyfriend someday. Can't believe I turn 25 in 4 mo!
My god, he's cute. (Not in a cocky way). Actually, I'm not sure our personalities are the best match; he may be too introverted for me. But anyway, I really liked him. He's studying for the LSAT, which he takes in a month. We had good conversations, and I stood close to him while waiting to order another glass of vino verde at the bar. I felt like he wasn't as into me as I wanted him to be, but he did hug me when he said goodbye. This night makes me more hopeful: the realization I can connect with guys given the opportunity. I will have a nice boyfriend someday. Can't believe I turn 25 in 4 mo!
1/11/10
Networking
My connections are growing on LinkedIn.. up to 80. I want around 150.
I arranged to meet with a recruiter. His profile said he works for my dad's bank but then he replied with another work email, so I think he's a contractor. Since I'm available during lunch, we will meet next week. It's a little scary. I realize I'm a little afraid of men.. I've been connecting to women because they're less intimidating! Need to get over this.
Meanwhile, I need to print another business card because I don't like my current one. The design isn't professional, and my friend who ordered them decided to change a bit of the wording; English isn't her first lang.
I had my first translation call last night. It was a Belgian guy whose luggage had been lost. He told me the story for about 7 min, and then I asked my colleague (in other dept) what she needed. I'll know to cut to the point in the future because she needed to know first of all whether he was covered, for her to help him. It was refreshing to speak French with a European versus a Canadian. I spoke to a (married) American guy Saturday, who was probably a tool but sounded hot. Sometimes the combination of sounding like they're right at the receiver (I don't mean heavy breathing) and a nice masculine voice is just mmm. That sounds so wrong, lol.
I arranged to meet with a recruiter. His profile said he works for my dad's bank but then he replied with another work email, so I think he's a contractor. Since I'm available during lunch, we will meet next week. It's a little scary. I realize I'm a little afraid of men.. I've been connecting to women because they're less intimidating! Need to get over this.
Meanwhile, I need to print another business card because I don't like my current one. The design isn't professional, and my friend who ordered them decided to change a bit of the wording; English isn't her first lang.
I had my first translation call last night. It was a Belgian guy whose luggage had been lost. He told me the story for about 7 min, and then I asked my colleague (in other dept) what she needed. I'll know to cut to the point in the future because she needed to know first of all whether he was covered, for her to help him. It was refreshing to speak French with a European versus a Canadian. I spoke to a (married) American guy Saturday, who was probably a tool but sounded hot. Sometimes the combination of sounding like they're right at the receiver (I don't mean heavy breathing) and a nice masculine voice is just mmm. That sounds so wrong, lol.
1/8/10
Fbook Hiatus
It didn't quite seem necessary, especially since it's a social portal for me in my isolated crap schedule, but I'm taking a break from Facebook (let's hope). I don't spend that much time on it, but I do log on 2-3 times a day sometimes and could be using that time for more productive things like finding a job.
Didn't figure out how to consolidate my numerous China albums.
Didn't figure out how to consolidate my numerous China albums.
1/5/10
Day off, and I need to get out of here
A good (for lack of better words) reminder of the weeks going by is changing the sheets on my bed every week. Yesterday was Monday, and they weren't changed. I can't believe it's already a week since I last heard my mom saying to put them in the wash. My dad says I shouldn't get upset when people ask me if I've found a job yet because I've been working full-time; the unfortunate thing is, I feel less productive when given spare time, because I feel isolated and need social interaction.
1/4/10
That was a strong last entry
It's possible my medicine makes me angrier, I don't know.
I'm amused "get-me-out-of-this-fuckhole" is part of the html address. ha!
My dream last night included the crush I had off and on from 7th grade to senior year of HS- so annoying! (In reality) I got up the courage to ask him to Hcoming senior year, calling him at home, and he said he actually had a girlfriend in another state. I think I believe him.. lol. I sat behind him possibly in both 10th and 12th grades because, sitting alphabetically, my last name was after his.
What did I like about him? He was smart and witty, to the point to being a bit cocky! He was cute, had a nice smile and voice.
I guess the funniest thing about the dream was, I almost told him, "This feels like déjà vu." Haha! We were in a classroom, except instead of an English teacher, it was my French middle school, and favorite of all time, teacher.
I'm amused "get-me-out-of-this-fuckhole" is part of the html address. ha!
My dream last night included the crush I had off and on from 7th grade to senior year of HS- so annoying! (In reality) I got up the courage to ask him to Hcoming senior year, calling him at home, and he said he actually had a girlfriend in another state. I think I believe him.. lol. I sat behind him possibly in both 10th and 12th grades because, sitting alphabetically, my last name was after his.
What did I like about him? He was smart and witty, to the point to being a bit cocky! He was cute, had a nice smile and voice.
I guess the funniest thing about the dream was, I almost told him, "This feels like déjà vu." Haha! We were in a classroom, except instead of an English teacher, it was my French middle school, and favorite of all time, teacher.
1/3/10
Get me out of this fuckhole
I lie in my bed, in my bedroom that I've been in for most of my life since age 7, and feel lucky that I am still able to live here with my parents. But I can't stand being around my sister and mother a lot of the time.. they just represent laziness and gluttony to me right now. Our dog died last year and to fill the void, and because she has no hobbies or friends, my mom watches cable tv a lot. I really don't get it.. how we've lived here 17 years, and she's made little effort to make progress in her life, make friends, or become active in the community. I don't want to blame her, but doesn't she realize that that affects her daughters negatively somewhat? One can argue I could be more persistent or whatever because of having a mother who has done little other than be a housewife at home most of the time, but I think it's held me back in some ways, because I didn't have a role model of a strong woman who could work and be active.
I'm bitter right now but it is how I feel; the sooner I get a better job and move out, I can move on with my life.
I'm bitter right now but it is how I feel; the sooner I get a better job and move out, I can move on with my life.
Linking
I need more connections!
I just wrote a local woman business owner who produces biodegradeable utensils but I wrote"recycled/recycable" when that isn't the case. Oops.
I just wrote a local woman business owner who produces biodegradeable utensils but I wrote"recycled/recycable" when that isn't the case. Oops.
1/2/10
Yay
I got THE last two tickets to the all-male ballet I wanted to see in 2.5 weeks. The seats aren't good but I'm still glad I'm going and was lucky to snatch the last ones!
Aww, my first-year Resident Assistant just said hi to me on Fbook. Makes me feel special when people from the past say hi.
This year has kind-of been an identity crisis because I've been at a job that isn't a good/fulfilling fit and don't know what I want to do career-wise. Add on top of that little social time due to the barbarian {I truly understand now why we outsource customer service jobs to India} 4-mid schedule.. but when I saw my 10th grade English teacher at the pub last night, an old French class classmate, and a former grocery store boss, I feel good that people remember me. Just like when I visited Randy Mac over a month ago, I remember that I do have roots, and people have supported me and wish me well.
Aww, my first-year Resident Assistant just said hi to me on Fbook. Makes me feel special when people from the past say hi.
This year has kind-of been an identity crisis because I've been at a job that isn't a good/fulfilling fit and don't know what I want to do career-wise. Add on top of that little social time due to the barbarian {I truly understand now why we outsource customer service jobs to India} 4-mid schedule.. but when I saw my 10th grade English teacher at the pub last night, an old French class classmate, and a former grocery store boss, I feel good that people remember me. Just like when I visited Randy Mac over a month ago, I remember that I do have roots, and people have supported me and wish me well.
1/1/10
Happy New Year! (and decade)
Do people write new decade resolutions? I thought about what I want to achieve before I'm 34.. not resolutions, but expectations for what I want to happen. I'd like to travel more (before being tied down with kids), have 1 or 2 fulfilling jobs, make a great social network of local friends to hang out with, get married to a nice (well, more criteria than that) man, and probably adopt a kid.
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